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When Kang Kang was born with Down’s syndrome, “as if the whole sky had fallen”, Ah Ying never thought that after giving birth to a healthy son, the child would be “wrong”.

Blood is thicker than water

An unexpected gift

Soft on the outside and rigid on the inside, step forward with love

Because her husband wanted to have another child, Aying became pregnant and gave birth again, but did not expect that her second son Kang Kang had Down syndrome, Aying felt collapsed and desperate and complained about her husband's willingness to give birth again, seeing Aying's emotions fall into the abyss, many people have proposed Aying to give up the custody of Kang Kang, but Aying categorically refused, thinking that even if it is bitter, it is easy to separate from Kang Kang who is connected to his blood?

Although blood is thicker than water, Ah Ying has also faced unfriendly eyes and words from passers-by on the street, coupled with Kang Kang's weak physical resistance and frequent illness, which makes Ah Ying feel a lot of pressure and worry in taking care of Kang Kang, and sometimes turns to her husband to vent her emotions. What makes Ah Ying grateful is that although her husband is not good at expressing feelings, she has always been by her side during the most difficult time, taking the initiative to participate in follow-up consultations and training classes, personally encouraging Ah Ying to contact fellow travelers and confide in each other, and when Ah Ying tells her sorrow, her husband is willing to silently understand. The tough intrusion of Down syndrome makes Aying see the love of the pillow person who tolerates her.

In order to protect her children and family, Ah Ying, who is delicate on the outside, gradually figured out how to deal with the sometimes unfriendly attitude outside, and even stood up and asked the other party to put themselves in the shoes of others! Although the road ahead still needs to be explored, Aying only hopes that the family can continue to walk together in good health.